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Tuesday, February 21, 2012

The True Law


I found this quote from Cecil B. DeMille on Doug's Blog at Vision Forum. I thought it was really insightful and very true.
“Our modern world defined God as a ‘religious complex’ and laughed at the Ten Commandments as OLD FASHIONED. Then, through the laughter came the shattering thunder of the World War. And now a blood-drenched, bitter world — no longer laughing — cries for a way out. There is but one way out. It existed before it was engraven upon Tablets of Stone. It will exist when stone has crumbled. The Ten Commandments are not rules to obey as a personal favor to God. They are the fundamental principles without which mankind cannot live together. They are not laws — they are The Law.”

Exodus 20

The Ten Commandments
1 Then God spoke all these words, saying,
2I am the LORD your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of [a]slavery.
3You shall have no other gods [b]before Me.
4You shall not make for yourself [c]an idol, or any likeness of what is in heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the water under the earth. 5 You shall not worship them or serve them; for I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children, on the third and the fourth generations of those who hate Me, 6 but showing lovingkindness to thousands, to those who love Me and keep My commandments.
7You shall not take the name of the LORD your God in vain, for the LORD will not [d]leave him unpunished who takes His name in vain.
8 “Remember the sabbath day, to keep it holy. 9 Six days you shall labor and do all your work, 10 but the seventh day is a sabbath of the LORD your God; in it you shall not do any work, you or your son or your daughter, your male or your female servant or your cattle or your sojourner who [e]stays with you. 11 For in six days the LORD made the heavens and the earth, the sea and all that is in them, and rested on the seventh day; therefore the LORD blessed the sabbath day and made it holy.
12Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be prolonged in the land which the LORD your God gives you.
13You shall not murder.
14You shall not commit adultery.
15You shall not steal.
16You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.
17You shall not covet your neighbor’s house; you shall not covet your neighbor’s wife or his male servant or his female servant or his ox or his donkey or anything that belongs to your neighbor.”

God bless!!!

-Tiana

Monday, February 13, 2012

Piano and Rose



A Rose by any other name...


I just found these pictures on my computer that I'd taken in November of our Piano and one of the beautiful roses that my Grandpa and Gramma had given me at my first piano concert.









My Personal Favorite


Saturday, February 11, 2012

Seeing Only Him...

Last Sunday at Church, we sang the hymn May the Mind of Christ My Saviour. I had heard the tune before but, never really focused in on the words. The overarching theme of doing all through and for Christ really convicted my heart.
 So often I find that I do things for my own good and glory rather than Gods. Even if they are "good" things if the heart motive is not right it really makes no difference, its still wrong.
          I know myself that I would often worry about praying out loud in front of others, lest they should think my speech awkward or boring. I would focus on making my words flow nicely (and perhaps poetically) rather than focusing on the fact that I was petitioning to the creator of Heaven and earth!!!
   As difficult as it is to do, I am trying every day to do all for and through Christ, making it my prayer that those who see me, would forget the channel seeing only Him.
  1. May the mind of Christ my Savior
    Live in me from day to day,
    By His love and power controlling
      All I do and say.
  2. May the Word of Christ dwell richly
    In my heart from hour to hour,
    So that all may see I triumph
      Only through His power.
  3. May the peace of Christ my Savior
    Rule my life in every thing,
    That I may be calm to comfort
      Sick and sorrowing.
  4. May the love of Jesus fill me,
    As the waters fill the sea;
    Him exalting, self abasing,
      This is victory.
  5. May I run the race before me,
    Strong and brave to face the foe,
    Looking only unto Jesus
      As I onward go.
  6. May His beauty rest upon me
    As I seek the lost to win,
    And may they forget the channel,
      Seeing only Him.

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

The Bible and Gun Controll


I know this isn't the typical article for a teenage girl to post on her blog, but I thought it was very interesting. After all, we are supposed to line up every area of our lives with scripture. Even guns!!!

TMW

 

What Does the Bible Say About Gun Control?

by
Larry Pratt
Executive Vice-President
Gun Owners Foundation

The underlying argument for gun control seems to be that the availability of guns causes crime. By extension, the availability of any weapon would have to be viewed as a cause of crime. What does the Bible say about such a view?
Perhaps we should start at the beginning, or at least very close to the beginning -- in Genesis 4. In this chapter we read about the first murder. Cain had offered an unacceptable sacrifice, and Cain was upset that God insisted that he do the right thing. In other words, Cain was peeved that he could not do his own thing.
Cain decided to kill his brother rather than get right with God. There were no guns available, although there may well have been a knife. Whether it was a knife or a rock, the Bible does not say. The point is, the evil in Cain's heart was the cause of the murder, not the availability of the murder weapon.
God's response was not to ban rocks or knives, or whatever, but to banish the murderer. Later (see Genesis 9:5-6) God instituted capital punishment, but said not a word about banning weapons.

Did Christ Teach Pacifism?

Many people, Christians included, assume that Christ taught pacifism. They cite Matthew 5:38-39 for their proof. In this verse Christ said: "You have heard that it was said, 'An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.' But I tell you not to resist an evil person. But whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn the other to him also."
The Sermon on the Mount from which this passage is taken deals with righteous personal conduct. In our passage, Christ is clearing up a confusion that had led people to think that conduct proper for the civil government -- that is, taking vengeance -- was also proper for an individual.
Even the choice of words used by Christ indicates that He was addressing a confusion, or a distortion, that was commonplace. Several times in the rest of the Sermon on the Mount Christ used this same "you have heard it said" figure of speech to straighten out misunderstandings or falsehoods being taught by the religious leaders of the times.
Contrast this to Christ's use of the phrase "it is written" when He was appealing to the Scriptures for authority (for example, see Matthew 4 where on three occasions during His temptation by the devil, Christ answered each one of the devil's lies or misquotes from Scripture with the words: "it is written").
To further underscore the point that Christ was correcting the religious leaders on their teaching that "an eye for an eye" applies to private revenge, consider that in the same Sermon, Christ strongly condemned false teaching: "Whoever therefore breaks one of the commandments, and teaches men so, shall be called least in the kingdom of heaven..." (Matthew 5:19). Clearly, then, Christ was not teaching something different about self defense than is taught elsewhere in the Bible. Otherwise, He would be contradicting Himself for He would now be teaching men to break one of the commandments.
The reference to "an eye for an eye" was taken from Exodus 21:24-25 which deals with how the magistrate must deal with a crime. Namely, the punishment must fit the crime. The religious leaders of Christ's day had twisted a passage that applied to the government and misused it as a principle of personal revenge.
The Bible distinguishes clearly between the duties of the civil magistrate (the government) and the duties of an individual. Namely, God has delegated to the civil magistrate the administration of justice. Individuals have the responsibility of protecting their lives from attackers. Christ was referring to this distinction in the Matthew 5 passage. Let us now examine in some detail what the Scriptures say about the roles of government and of individuals.
Both the Old and New Testaments teach individual self defense, even if it means taking the assailant's life in certain circumstances.

Self-Defense in the Old Testament

Exodus 22:2-3 tells us "If the thief is found breaking in, and he is struck so that he dies, there shall be no guilt for his bloodshed. If the sun has risen on him, there shall be guilt for his bloodshed. He should make full restitution; if he has nothing, then he shall be sold for his theft."
One conclusion which can be drawn from this is that a threat to our life is to be met with lethal force. After the sun has risen seems to refer to a different judgment than the one permitted at night. At night it is more difficult to discern whether the intruder is a thief or a murderer. Furthermore, the nighttime makes it more difficult to defend oneself and to avoid killing the thief at the same time. During the daytime, it better be clear that one's life was in danger, otherwise, defense becomes vengeance, and that belongs in the hand of the magistrate.
In Proverbs 25:26 we read that "A righteous man who falters before the wicked is like a murky spring and a polluted well." Certainly, we would be faltering before the wicked if we chose to be unarmed and unable to resist an assailant who might be threatening our life. In other words, we have no right to hand over our life which is a gift from God to the unrighteous. It is a serious mistake to equate a civilized society with one in which the decent people are doormats for the evil to trample on.

Trusting God

Another question asked by Christians is "Doesn't having a gun imply a lack of trust that God will take care of us?"
Indeed, God will take care of us. He has also told us that if we love Him, we will keep His commandments. (John 14:15)
Those who trust God work for a living, knowing that 1 Timothy 5:8 tells us "But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever." For a man not to work, yet expect to eat because he was "trusting God" would actually be to defy God.
King David wrote in Psalm 46:1 that God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. This did not conflict with praising the God "Who trains my hands for war and my fingers for battle" (Psalm 144:1).
The doctrine of Scripture is that we prepare and work, but we trust the outcome to God.
Those who trust God should also make adequate provision for their own defense even as we are instructed in the passages cited above. For a man to refuse to provide adequately for his and his family's defense would be to defy God.
There is an additional concern to taking the position that "I don't need to arm myself. God will protect me."
At one point, when Satan was tempting Jesus in the wilderness, he challenged Jesus to throw himself off the top of the temple. Satan reasoned that God's angels would protect him. Jesus responded: "It is written again, 'You shall not tempt the Lord your God'" (Matthew 4:7).
It may seem pious to say that one is trusting in God for protection, and we all must, but it is tempting God if we do not take the measures that He has laid out for us in the Bible.

Role of Government

The Bible records the first murder in Genesis 4 when Cain killed his brother Abel. God's response was not to register rocks or impose a background check on those getting a plough, or whatever it was that Cain used to kill his brother. Instead, God dealt with the criminal. Ever since Noah the penalty for murder has been death.
We see the refusal to accept this principle that God has given us from the very beginning. Today we see a growing acceptance of the idea that checking the criminal backgrounds of gun buyers will lessen crime but we should seldom execute those who are guilty of murder.
In Matthew 15 (and in Mark 7) Christ accused the religious leaders of the day of also opposing the execution of those deserving of death -- rebellious teenagers. They had replaced the commandments of God with their own traditions. God has never been interested in controlling the means of violence. He has always made it a point to punish, and where possible, restore (as with restitution and excommunication) the wrongdoer. Control of individuals is to be left to self-government. Punishment of individuals by the civil government is to be carried out when self-government breaks down.
Man's wisdom today has been to declare gun free school zones which are invaded by gun-toting teenage terrorists whom we refuse to execute. We seem to have learned little from Christ's rebuke of the Pharisees.
Nowhere in the Bible does God make any provision for dealing with the instruments of crime. He always focuses on the consequences for an individual of his actions. Heaven and hell only applies to people, not to things. Responsibility only pertains to people, not to things. If this principle, which was deeply embedded in the common law, still pertained today lawsuits against gun manufacturers would be thrown out unless the product malfunctioned.
Responsibility rightly includes being liable for monetary damages if a firearm is left in a grossly negligent fashion so that an ignorant child gets the gun and misuses it. The solution is not to require that trigger locks be used on a gun to avoid being subject to such a law suit. Some might argue that this is nothing more than an application of the Biblical requirement that a railing be placed around the flat rooftop of a house where people might congregate. But trigger locks are to be used with unloaded guns which would be the same as requiring a railing around a pitched roof where people do not congregate.
Surely in protecting against accidents we cannot end up making ourselves more vulnerable to criminal attack, which is what a trigger lock does if it is in use on the firearm intended for self protection.
The firearm that is kept for self defense should be available in an emergency. Rooftop railings have no correspondence to the need for instant access to a gun. On the other hand, guns that are not intended for immediate use should be kept secured as a reasonable precaution. But to make the owner criminally or monetarily liable for another's misuse violates a basic commandment of Scripture: "the righteousness of the righteous shall be upon himself, and the wickedness of the wicked shall be upon himself" (Ezekiel 18:20b).

Self Defense Versus Vengeance

Resisting an attack is not to be confused with taking vengeance which is the exclusive domain of God (Romans 12:19). This has been delegated to the civil magistrate, who, as we read in Romans 13:4, "is God's minister to you for good. But if you do evil, be afraid; for he does not bear the sword in vain; for he is God's minister, an avenger to execute wrath on him who practices evil."
Private vengeance means one would stalk down a criminal after one's life is no longer in danger as opposed to defending oneself during an attack. It is this very point that has been confused by Christian pacifists who would take the passage in the Sermon on the Mount about turning the other cheek (which prohibits private vengeance) into a command to falter before the wicked.
Let us consider also that the Sixth Commandment tells us "Thou shall not murder." In the chapters following, God gave to Moses many of the situations which require a death penalty. God clearly has not told us never to kill. He has told us not to murder, which means we are not to take an innocent life. Consider also that the civil magistrate is to be a terror to those who practice evil. This passage does not in any way imply that the role of law enforcement is to prevent crimes or to protect individuals from criminals. The magistrate is a minister to serve as "an avenger to execute wrath on him who practices evil" (Romans 13:4).
This point is reflected in the legal doctrine of the United States. Repeatedly, courts have held that the government has no responsibility to provide individual security. One case (Bowers v. DeVito) put it this way: "there is no constitutional right to be protected by the state against being murdered."

Self Defense in the New Testament

The Christian pacifist may try to argue that God has changed His mind from the time that He gave Moses the Ten Commandments on Mount Sinai. Perhaps they would want us to think that Christ canceled out the Ten Commandments in Exodus 20 or the provision for justifiably killing a thief in Exodus 22. But the writer of Hebrews makes it clear that this cannot be, because "Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today and forever" (Hebrews 13:8). In the Old Testament, the prophet Malachi records God's words this way: "For I am the Lord, I do not change" (Malachi 3:6).
Paul was referring to the unchangeability of God's Word when he wrote to Timothy that "All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work" (2 Timothy 3:16-17). Clearly, Paul viewed all Scripture, including the Old Testament, as useful for training Christians in every area of life.
We must also consider what Christ told his disciples in his last hours with them: "...But now, he who has a money bag, let him take it, and likewise a sack; and he who has no sword, let him sell his garment and buy one" (Luke 22:36). Keep in mind that the sword was the finest offensive weapon available to an individual soldier -- the equivalent then of a military rifle today.
The Christian pacifist will likely object at this point that only a few hours later, Christ rebuked Peter who used a sword to cut off the ear of Malchus, a servant of the high priest in the company of a detachment of troops. Let us read what Christ said to Peter in Matthew 26:52-54:
Put your sword in its place, for all who take the sword will perish by the sword. Or do you think that I cannot now pray to My Father, and He will provide Me with more than twelve legions of angels? How then could the Scriptures be fulfilled, that it must happen thus?
In the companion passage in John 18, Jesus tells Peter to put his sword away and told him that He had to drink the cup that His Father had given Him. It was not the first time that Christ had to explain to the disciples why He had come to earth. To fulfill the Scriptures, the Son of God had to die for the sin of man since man was incapable of paying for his own sin apart from going to hell. Christ could have saved His life, but then believers would have lost their lives forever in hell. These things only became clear to the disciples after Christ had died and been raised from the dead and the Spirit had come into the world at Pentecost (see John 14:26).
While Christ told Peter to "put your sword in its place" He clearly did not say get rid of it forever. That would have contradicted what he had told the disciples only hours before. Peter's sword was to protect his own mortal life from danger. His sword was not needed to protect the Creator of the universe and the King of kings.
Years after Pentecost, Paul wrote in a letter to Timothy "But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever" (1 Tim. 5:8). This passage applies to our subject because it would be absurd to buy a house, furnish it with food and facilities for one's family, and then refuse to install locks and provide the means to protect the family and the property. Likewise it would be absurd not to take, if necessary, the life of a night-time thief to protect the members of the family (Exodus 22:2-3).
A related, and even broader concept, is found in the parable of the Good Samaritan. Christ had referred to the Old Testament summary of all the laws of the Bible into two great commandments: "'You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your strength, and with all your mind,' and your neighbor as yourself'" (Luke 10:27). When asked who was a neighbor, Christ related the parable of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:30-37). It was the Good Samaritan who took care of the mugging victim who was a neighbor to the victim. The others who walked by and ignored the victim's plight were not acting as neighbors to him.
In the light of all we have seen the Scriptures teach to this point, can we argue that if we were able to save another's life from an attacker by shooting the attacker with our gun that we should "turn the other cheek instead?" The Bible speaks of no such right. It only speaks of our responsibilities in the face of an attack -- as individual creatures made by God, as householders or as neighbors.

National Blessings and Cursings

The Old Testament also tells us a great deal about the positive relationship between righteousness, which exalts a nation, and self defense. It makes clear that in times of national rebellion against the Lord God, the rulers of the nation will reflect the spiritual degradation of the people and the result is a denial of God's commandments, an arrogance of officialdom, disarmament and oppression.
For example, the people of Israel were oppressed during the time of the rule of the Judges. This occurred every time the people apostatized. Judges 5:8 tells us that, "They chose new gods; then there was war in the gates; not a shield or spear was seen among forty thousand in Israel."
Consider Israel under Saul: The first book of Samuel tells of the turning away of Israel from God. The people did not want to be governed by God; they wanted to be ruled by a king like the pagan, God-hating nations around them. Samuel warned the people what they were getting into -- the curses that would be upon them -- if they persisted in raising up a king over themselves and their families. Included in those curses was the raising up of a standing, professional army which would take their sons and their daughters for aggressive wars (I Samuel 8:11).
This curse is not unknown in the United States. Saul carried out all the judgments that Samuel had warned the people about. His build up of a standing army has been repeated in the U.S., and not just in terms of the military, but also the 650,000 full-time police officers from all levels of government.
Saul was the king the Israelites wanted and got. He was beautiful in the eyes of the world but a disaster in the eyes of the Lord. Saul did not trust God. He rebelled against His form of sacrifice unto the Lord. Saul put himself above God. He was impatient. He refused to wait for Samuel because God's way was taking too long. Saul went ahead and performed the sacrifice himself, thus violating God's commandment (and, incidentally, also violating the God-ordained separation of duties of church and state!)
Thus was the kingdom lost to Saul. And, it was under him that the Philistines were able to defeat the Jews and put them into bondage. So great was the bondage exerted by the Philistines that "Now there was no blacksmith to be found throughout all the land of Israel: for the Philistines said, 'Lest the Hebrews make them swords or spears.' But all the Israelites went down to the Philistines to sharpen each man's plowshare, his mattock, his ax, and his sickle;...So it came about, on the day of battle, that there was neither sword nor spear found in the hand of any of the people who were with Saul and Jonathan..." (1 Samuel 13:19-20; 22-23).
Today, the same goals of the Philistines would be carried out by an oppressor who would ban gunsmiths from the land. The sword of today is the handgun, rifle or shotgun. The sword control of the Philistines is today's gun control of those governments that do not trust their people with guns.
It is important to understand that what happened to the Jews at the time of Saul was not unexpected according to the sanctions spelled out by God in Leviticus 26 and Deuteronomy 28. In the first verses of those chapters, blessings are promised to a nation that keeps God's laws. In the latter parts of those chapters, the curses are spelled out for a nation that comes under judgment for its rebellion against God. Deuteronomy 28:47-48 helps us understand the reason for Israel's oppression by the Philistines during Saul's reign:
Because you did not serve the Lord your God with joy and gladness of heart, for the abundance of all things, therefore you shall serve your enemies, whom the Lord will send against you, in hunger, in thirst, in nakedness, and in need of all things; and He will put a yoke of iron on your neck until He has destroyed you.
The Bible provides examples of God's blessing upon Israel for its faithfulness. These blessings included a strong national defense coupled with peace. A clear example occurred during the reign of Jehoshaphat. 2 Chronicles 17 tells of how Jehoshaphat led Israel back to faithfulness to God which included a strong national defense. The result: "And the fear of the Lord fell on all the kingdoms of the lands that were around Judah, so that they did not make war against Jehoshaphat" (2 Chronicles 17:10).
The Israelite army was a militia army (Numbers 1:3, ff.) which came to battle with each man bearing his own weapons -- from the time of Moses, through the Judges, and beyond. When threatened by the Midianites, for example, "Moses spoke to the people , saying, 'Arm some of yourselves for the war, and let them go against the Midianites to take vengeance for the Lord on Midian'" (Numbers 31:3). Again, to demonstrate the Biblical heritage of individuals bearing and keeping arms, during David's time in the wilderness avoiding capture by Saul, "David said to his men, 'Every man gird on his sword.' So every man girded on his sword, and David also girded on his sword" (1 Samuel 25:13).
Finally, consider Nehemiah and those who rebuilt the gates and walls of Jerusalem. They were both builders and defenders, each man -- each servant -- armed with his own weapon:
Those who built on the wall, and those who carried burdens loaded themselves so that with one hand they worked at construction, and with the other held a weapon. Every one of the builders had his sword girded at his side as he built (Nehemiah 4:17-18).

Conclusion

The wisdom of the framers of the Constitution is consistent with the lessons of the Bible. Instruments of defense should be dispersed throughout the nation, not concentrated in the hands of the central government. In a godly country, righteousness governs each man through the Holy Spirit working within. The government has no cause to want a monopoly of force; the government that desires such a monopoly is a threat to the lives, liberty and property of its citizens.
The assumption that only danger can result from people carrying guns is used to justify the government's having a monopoly of force. The notion that the people cannot be trusted to keep and bear their own arms informs us that ours, like the time of Solomon, may be one of great riches but is also a time of peril to free people. If Christ is not our King, we shall have a dictator to rule over us, just as Samuel warned.
For those who think that God treated Israel differently from the way He will treat us today, please consider what God told the prophet Malachi: "For I am the Lord, I do not change..." (Malachi 3:6).

Monday, February 6, 2012

It's (not that) Complicated

  Anna-Sofia and Elizabeth Botkin have recently written a book called It's (not that) Complicated (How to Relate to Guys in a Healthy, Sane and Biblical Way).  According to myself and all my friends who have read it, this book is a must read for every Christian young lady!!!
   The authors gently, humbly, and humorously exhort girls in their friendships with boys.
    It totally challenged me in the way I relate to young men as brothers in Christ. I greatly appreciate how they encourage sisters to realize that they have to be good real sisters to their real brothers, before they can ever learn to be good spiritual sisters to their spiritual brothers. My dad always said that the family is a training ground for the real world.
    It was a very eye-opening book as well. Anna and Elizabeth kindly point our own hearts are the stem of a lot of our 'boy problems'. Pride does make it hard for us to admit that our hearts are just as "deceitfully wicked" as every one else's. (Jeremiah 17:9)
    Some of the Chapters include titles like;
 Boys Are People Too: Learning to See Men as God Sees them

 Relationship Boot Camp: Back to Square One: How to Be a Sister to Your Real Brothers

Playing With Matches: Meddling With Other Peoples Relationships

Not Another Chapter on Contentment: How to Occupy Until He Comes

And many more!

The book is available for purchase at Vision Forum (just click the link below) And again I would highly recommend it to any young lady wanted to submit every area of her life to God's Word!!!

http://www.visionforum.com/browse/product/its-not-that-complicated/?search=its+not+that+complicated&sortby=0

I hope ya'll have a great day in the Lord!!!
 Tiana Michelle Worthy

(PS I did it Shanelle!!!)




      

Friday, December 30, 2011

Swim Suits!!!


I found my new favorite style of swimwear!!!


Photo from Recolections

Thursday, October 13, 2011

The 'Socialization' Question

"Oh your homeschooled, what about socialization, do you have (any) friends?"
 Any one who's been homeschooled has heard that question (probably a thousand times) I found this article on my computer and I thought it was an excellent answer to that question for homeschooling parents (and students alike)
    If we truly understand what the purpose of education is (the development of Godly character) our perspective on academics totally changes. I hope you are blessed by this article as I was.
Nurturing Loving Children, or ... How to Teach
Socialization Skills

by Ruth Lindstrom
Homeschooled young adults have made quite an astonishing reputation for themselves.
Research shows that they exceed their contemporaries not only academically, but also socially.
Yet the question, "But what about their socialization skills?" continues to haunt the souls of
good and conscientious parents. We see the flaws and failings of our own flesh and blood, and
in our heart of hearts, if we are honest with ourselves, we wonder if maybe our children
wouldn't be better off in a conventional school setting or with other tutors and teachers?
What will our children learn in a conventional classroom?
Sending our children off to a conventional classroom will certainly teach them a lot. But will it
teach them behavior which will serve them well as adults? Hopefully, because your children
have been taught well at home, they will not pick up bad habits like cheating, lying, ridiculing,
stealing, sexual immorality, drug use, and violent behaviors. In addition, I know you hope that
they will not join so many Americans who now follow occult and eastern religious practices
taught in many government schools.
However, I can guarantee that your children will learn where they are in a pecking order, they
will be taught to value their peers' opinions as more important than adults', they will either
learn to stand up for their rights or else how to avoid being hurt, they will learn how to guard
their possessions, and other self-serving skills.
The question is: Is this the kind of socialization you want for your children?
What is "good" socialization?
The word "socialize" is defined in

Webster's New World College Dictionary, Fourth Edition as:

vt. --ized, --izing 1 to make social; adjust to or make fit for
cooperative group living 2 to adapt or make conform to the common
needs of a social group 3 to subject to governmental ownership and
control; nationalize 4 to cause to become socialist -- vi. to take
part in social activity -- socialization n. -- socializer n.
Thought provoking! None of the above definitions begin to describe the much bigger goals I
had in mind for the "socialization" of my children -- and some are downright antithetical! My
desire for my children was that they would grow up to be loving, gracious adults who would
be able to work together with others to further the Kingdom of God; to have the confidence to
love and be loved as marriage partners; to be able to lead and train their children; to have the
social skills necessary for employment; to take their place as servants and leaders in the church
and community.
Fortunately, we realized early in our children's lives that other semi-socialized peers would not
be able to help our children achieve these goals. Only by living with and learning from adults
would we be able to see this kind of fruit. In addition, who else but us as their parents would
ever care enough to see these goals come to fruition in each of our children's lives?
Provided for your encouragement by
Family Discipleship Ministries
- 25 Geissler Road, Montesanowww.FamilyDiscipleshipMin.com

Friday, October 7, 2011

Hannah and Me (with bunny)


My cousin Hannah Christenbury ( I know it's confusing, I have two cousin Hannahs)
Well anyways...Hannah sent me this picture of her and me when we were little. I thought it was kind of cute. Neither of us look to thrilled about the whole "bunny" idea.
   

Thursday, October 6, 2011

Benjamin and Lucia

Me holding Benjamin, I love how he'll just stare into my eyes

Anyone who's known me for more than ten minutes probably knows that I LOVE babies. And the only thing better than having a baby, is having two babies.
   One of the friends my dad played football with, Nick Hebler, and his wife Veronica just had twins about six weeks ago.  I have been given the amazing privilege of being "Auntie Tiana" or "Auntie T"
to Benjamin and Lucia.
   It has been such a blessing for me to be able to watch them over the last seven weeks as they've grown and learned their little personalities. They have already earned a special place in my heart.
Here are some pictures of les enfants. The first are of their baby shower.

The cake was so adorable, I don't think anyone wanted to cut into it

Veronica and her sister Patricia holding Bejamin and Lucia by their cake

There were a lot of presents since everyone gave two gifts, one pink, on blue. I love how Veronica dresses them in matching clothes but the boy and girl versions

Patricia and her daughter Alex made this gorgeous diaper cake
Rachelle is holding Lucia and I'm holding Benjamin


  

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Why Men are in Trouble

My dad read this article to us during family worship last night. We found it fascinating that this was a top article on CNN, a secular news program. Dad pointed out that when the world starts noticing a problem with the way our society is going, it must be pretty bad. I hope you enjoy this article as much as we did.
     God Bless,
              TMW

Why men are in trouble

By William J. Bennett, CNN Contributor
updated 10:27 AM EST, Tue October 4, 2011

STORY HIGHLIGHTS
  • William Bennett: Women have made huge strides in achievement
  • He says men have fallen behind, now accounting for less than half of college degrees
  • Men are more distant from families, many don't have jobs and lack maturity, he says
  • Bennett: We need to teach boys the things they need to thrive as men
Editor's note: William J. Bennett, a CNN contributor, is the author of "The Book of Man: Readings on the Path to Manhood." Bennett is the Washington fellow of the Claremont Institute. He was U.S. secretary of education from 1985 to 1988 and was director of the Office of National Drug Control Policy under President George H.W. Bush.
(CNN) -- For the first time in history, women are better educated, more ambitious and arguably more successful than men.
Now, society has rightly celebrated the ascension of one sex. We said, "You go girl," and they went. We celebrate the ascension of women but what will we do about what appears to be the very real decline of the other sex?
The data does not bode well for men. In 1970, men earned 60% of all college degrees. In 1980, the figure fell to 50%, by 2006 it was 43%. Women now surpass men in college degrees by almost three to two. Women's earnings grew 44% in real dollars from 1970 to 2007, compared with 6% growth for men.
In 1950, 5% of men at the prime working age were unemployed. As of last year, 20% were not working, the highest ever recorded. Men still maintain a majority of the highest paid and most powerful occupations, but women are catching them and will soon be passing them if this trend continues.
The warning signs for men stretch far beyond their wallets. Men are more distant from a family or their children then they have ever been. The out-of-wedlock birthrate is more than 40% in America. In 1960, only 11% of children in the U.S. lived apart from their fathers. In 2010, that share had risen to 27%. Men are also less religious than ever before. According to Gallup polling, 39% of men reported attending church regularly in 2010, compared to 47% of women.
If you don't believe the numbers, just ask young women about men today. You will find them talking about prolonged adolescence and men who refuse to grow up. I've heard too many young women asking, "Where are the decent single men?" There is a maturity deficit among men out there, and men are falling behind.
This decline in founding virtues -- work, marriage, and religion -- has caught the eye of social commentators from all corners. In her seminal article, "The End of Men," Hanna Rosin unearthed the unprecedented role reversal that is taking place today. "Man has been the dominant sex since, well, the dawn of mankind. But for the first time in human history, that is changing—and with shocking speed," writes Rosin. The changes in modern labor -- from backs to brains -- have catapulted women to the top of the work force, leaving men in their dust.
Hanna Rosin: Are women leaving men behind?
Man's response has been pathetic. Today, 18-to- 34-year-old men spend more time playing video games a day than 12-to- 17-year-old boys. While women are graduating college and finding good jobs, too many men are not going to work, not getting married and not raising families. Women are beginning to take the place of men in many ways. This has led some to ask: do we even need men?
So what's wrong? Increasingly, the messages to boys about what it means to be a man are confusing. The machismo of the street gang calls out with a swagger. Video games, television and music offer dubious lessons to boys who have been abandoned by their fathers. Some coaches and drill sergeants bark, "What kind of man are you?" but don't explain.
Movies are filled with stories of men who refuse to grow up and refuse to take responsibility in relationships. Men, some obsessed with sex, treat women as toys to be discarded when things get complicated. Through all these different and conflicting signals, our boys must decipher what it means to be a man, and for many of them it is harder to figure out.
For boys to become men, they need to be guided through advice, habit, instruction, example and correction. It is true in all ages. Someone once characterized the two essential questions Plato posed as: Who teaches the children, and what do we teach them? Each generation of men and women have an obligation to teach the younger males (and females of course) coming behind them. William Wordsworth said, "What we have loved, others will love, and we will teach them how." When they fail in that obligation, trouble surely follows.
We need to respond to this culture that sends confusing signals to young men, a culture that is agnostic about what it wants men to be, with a clear and achievable notion of manhood.
The Founding Fathers believed, and the evidence still shows, that industriousness, marriage and religion are a very important basis for male empowerment and achievement. We may need to say to a number of our twenty-something men, "Get off the video games five hours a day, get yourself together, get a challenging job and get married." It's time for men to man up.

The opinions expressed in this commentary are solely those of William J. Bennett.


Friday, September 9, 2011

Backwards Apolagy

Last weekend we had the blessing of having four of our cousins from the island come stay with us.
One day, as the little boys were playing in the foyer Jacob(5) took a toy away from Isaac(3)
 Isaac started crying and Mom and I went in to see what the matter was. Jacob told us that Isaac wouldn't share so he took the toy (well, he didn't exactly say it like that, but that about summarizes what he said) Mom patiently asked him if he would like it if Isaac took a toy away from him and he said no.
 We asked Jacob to apologize to Isaac for taking the toy and he wasn't being the most cooperative so we kept imploring him.
  Meanwhile Isaac had happily moved on to play with his toys but, hearing us saying things like "You need to apologize" "Can you please ask for forgiveness" So, being the ever obedient child, he said
 "I'm sorry"
 And Jacob piped up "I forgive you" and they went back to playing.
 I can't express how hard I was laughing. It didn't exactly work out how we expected it too but the boys were happy with the arrangements so we left it :)

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Cousins Visit

This past weekend our family had the blessing of having four of our cousins come visit us from the Island.
Their great-granddaddy died and their mom, dad, two oldest brothers and baby sister went down to Washington for the funeral. That left us with Hannah, Luke, Jacob and Isaac.
    We had such a wonderful time with them. I actually swam in our pool for the second time all summer. I thought I was going to get hypothermia it was so cold. But I survived...barely.
   We loved every minute of our time together. 
 Here are some pictures


Isaac, Jacob and Luke enjoyed watching the big trucks dump bark mulch in our paddocks





Jacob and the delivery truck

The kids turned our driveway into a canvas for their artwork
Isaac hard at work
  
Cody and Luke (Luke just got a Swiss-army knife and he really enjoyed spending his time carving)

Cody and Isaac played basketball, it was really cute


Dad reading the boys a bedtime story.

Rachelle, Jacob, Luke, Hannah, Isaac, Me and Jewel

Monday, August 22, 2011

Looking towards the Son



(Photo from Wikipedia)
The other day, as I went for my morning run along the dike, I couldn't help but notice how the dandelions that grow along the side of the pathway always have their heads turned to face the sun.
   It brought to mind how we, as Christians, should always be living with our faces turned towards the Son (Christ)
   A phrase that is brought up quite often in our home is the Latin term Coram Deo which means (in English) Before the face of God.
Dad often points out to us the importance of living in the conscious presence of God.
Lately I have been really convicted in the area of living like you believe God exists. I had a wonderful talk about this with my Auntie Nikko last week. It is so easy to be one way around one group of people and another way around another group of people. Sometimes I find myself struggling with wanting to living for the people around me, instead of for God. But once I really think about it, as I stand before the throne of God in heaven, will I really care what other people thought of me? Of course not!
    Living in the conscious presence of God is hard. Knowing that every little thing you do, every thought you have, every song you listen to, every movie you watch, every picture you look at,  is known by the all-knowing, all-powerful, all-holy, creator-God is quite convicting.
   Psalm 139 is such a beautiful description of how God is always with us, and how He is intimately involved in our lives and knows every detail of what we do. It is amazing to think that God knows the number of hairs on each head of the approximately 7,134,807,000 people in the world!
Psalm 139 (English Standard Version)
1 O LORD, you have searched me and known me! 2 You know when I sit down and when I rise up; you discern my thoughts from afar. 3 You search out my path and my lying down and are acquainted with all my ways. 4 Even before a word is on my tongue, behold, O LORD, you know it altogether. 5 You hem me in, behind and before, and lay your hand upon me. 6 Such knowledge is too wonderful for me; it is high; I cannot attain it. 7 Where shall I go from your Spirit? Or where shall I flee from your presence? 8 If I ascend to heaven, you are there! If I make my bed in Sheol, you are there! 9 If I take the wings of the morning and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea, 10 even there your hand shall lead me, and your right hand shall hold me. 11 If I say, "Surely the darkness shall cover me, and the light about me be night," 12 even the darkness is not dark to you; the night is bright as the day, for darkness is as light with you. 13 For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb. 14 I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well. 15 My frame was not hidden from you, when I was being made in secret, intricately woven in the depths of the earth. 16 Your eyes saw my unformed substance; in your book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them. 17 How precious to me are your thoughts, O God! How vast is the sum of them! 18 If I would count them, they are more than the sand. I awake, and I am still with you. 19 Oh that you would slay the wicked, O God! O men of blood, depart from me! 20 They speak against you with malicious intent; your enemies take your name in vain! 21 Do I not hate those who hate you, O LORD? And do I not loathe those who rise up against you? 22 I hate them with complete hatred; I count them my enemies. 23 Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts! 24 And see if there be any grievous way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting!

Striving to live Coram Deo has definitely made me see even more what a desperate sinner I truly am.
   Jeremiah 17:9 (ESV)

 The heart is deceitful above all things,
   and desperately sick;
   who can understand it?

I can't help but be all the more amazed that God sent His only son to die a horrific death on the cross to save someone like me. What an awesome and gracious God we serve!!!

Saturday, August 20, 2011

Visit with the Flaigs


Me, Ruth and Hannah's feet
A few weeks ago I went to Vancouver Island to stay with my cousins who live in Sydney (BC not Australia)
It was a wonderful time of fellowship and I feel that I really connected with my cousins in a way I never had before. Uncle Jarret and Auntie Nikko love the Lord very much and have the same world-veiw as us, the like-mindedness was such a blessing. I felt as if I had found a second family, and it was so, so hard to go home.
I actually nearly cried on the last night when the kids gave me a little goodbye presentation.
       I had many good conversations with my Uncle and Aunt and the older cousins. I was so encouraged by many of the things we talked about and I loved hearing about Auntie Nikko's own spiritual journey and the things she is learning, it really inspired me in my own walk with the Lord.
       I was also very blessed to get to know my cousins in a more intimate way, I had known them before, but know I feel that I know them so much more. I can know appreciate them on a deeper level. I especially appreciated the time I spent with Hannah, she has become like another little sister to me.
Here are some pictures of my time there


Ruth Flaig (1)


Me, Hannah (10)  and Ruth (1)


Micah Flaig (14)


 
I really appreciated getting to know Micah better. His servants heart is so apparent. He is always asking what he can do to help. I enjoyed the many conversations we had together, he is really growing into an exceptional young man.
Mary and Eva (9 1/2)  I can't believe how much Eva has grown up (sniff) She has so much hair and I don't think I've ever seen such a tanned baby (she definitely has her Greek mothers skin)

Mary was trying to make dinner when Eva was "asking" for a little attention from mom

One Day Auntie Nikko and I made freezer meals. This is my great big pot of Chili


Ruth and Me

Me and Ruth on a swing at the park

Uncle Jarret with four of his kids

Hannah and Ruth

Auntie Nikko and Ruth

Isaac (3) fell asleep in his car seat (so cute!!!)

Isaac loved having his picture taken

Josiah found thisold  pan at Granddad's house and polished it up
Hannah and Luke on the swing
Jacob and Isaac are both eating Gluten-free (like me) these are there "special" muffins, though Jacob says he doesn't want to be special! (probably because he can't eat oatmeal cookies)

Me and the cousins being goofy